The most senior Family Court Judge in England and Wales recently spoke of his concern that he has had to make decisions on too many disputes that should be resolved by the parents themselves.
Read MoreStarting to plan your summer holidays? For parents who are separated arranging the children’s holidays can be difficult.
It’s not just a question of finding somewhere nice which you can afford, but of agreeing on the arrangements with the children’s mother or father. There are dates to agree, childcare arrangements to be made or unmade, and questions about where and with whom the children are going.
Read MoreAnyone becoming involved in a legal dispute will know how complex, time-consuming and expensive it can become. For those involved in business, disputes need to be resolved and resolved quickly before unnecessary time is wasted, positions become entrenched and heavy costs incurred. Nevertheless, it is often easier said than done, principles and personalities are involved, and there’s always the hope that the problem will just go away.
Read MoreMost people asking the Family Courts for an Order relating to their children or their property are required to lodge a certificate stating that they have attended a meeting with a qualified mediator and discussed the possibility of resolving their dispute by mediation.
Read MoreIf parents were prepared to spend on family mediation even a quarter of the amount they spend on legal proceedings they would transform their children’s lives. My clients frequently complain about spending a few hundred pounds on mediation and yet go on to spend thousands, sometimes tens of thousands on litigation.
Read MoreI sometimes think of family mediation as a mattress supporting parents through the difficult challenges of bringing up children when they no longer live together. The great thing about a mattress is it supports you when you’re down but it can also help you bounce back up again.
Read MoreMediation is not always easy. We are used to working with clients who feel upset, angry and tense. We provide a safe and calm environment, and can offer you separate space when needed. We will manage your discussion to enable each of you to put your point of view, and discuss your situation in a positive and constructive manner.
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